I'm still friendly with ExH and have made a real effort at this for a number of reasons - among other things because we're both expats and share a lovely circle of friends that we made when we first moved here (locals and other expats).
However, just about a year after our divorce ExH decided to get married again and brought his new wife here from her country of origin (same place where ExPIL are from, too). The new wife hates my guts (which I don't mind so much) and has started badmouthing me to my friends (which I do mind, thankyouverymuch!).
Apparently she's been going around telling my friends that I'm a career obsessed whore who's only made it to where I am today because I've slept with my boss and that's why I left ExH. I've been told this by two different people.
I reckon part of this is jealousy on her part but I frankly need her to stop regardless of why she does it.
Do I talk to ExH (who, as I said I'm on good terms with) or do I confront her? And what on earth do I say?
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