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hurtandconfued2016 · 29/02/2016 22:08

Well everyone thought I would do my first update as I'm having a melt down here!!

Bathing my 2 year old and struggling with the fact I'm having to leave him tomorrow and that after tomorrow his life is going to be so different!!
I'm also so hurt! My ex's mum and dad have text to say good luck for tomorrow but have a I heard from ex?? No nothing not a bloody thing tonight should have been exciting for us we should have been doing it together! Instead he takes his 2 weeks paternity leave and I'll probably not see him!
Any way just thought I would start it off going to try and sleep as sister is picking me up at 6 :)

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Guiltypleasures001 · 29/02/2016 22:30

Oh lovely lots of warm wishes being sent your way from lots of us here, pretty soon you will have something a lot more important than him in your life. Then hopefully you and your little unit can start to move forward and he can fuck off and do one.

Thanks

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clashofclanswidow · 29/02/2016 22:34

Massive good luck, will be thinking of you tomorrow.

Don't give that idiot any more head space for the next 24 hours - tomorrow is about you, getting your gorgeous baby girl here safely and new beginnings - you can always worry about the rest later and we'll still be here for you.

Don't give him one more second of your time over the coming day, as if he was worth it, he'd be there, we need real men - not boys.

Focus on your baby and I bet the first time you hold her, although you don't feel that way now, it will all suddenly change, I promise =)

You take care of yourself and I will be following your thread hun, eek! xxxxx

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Panther79 · 29/02/2016 22:37

Good luck!
Soon you will have your newborn in your arms! How exciting! Such a special time it is to give birth so wishing you a smooth experience.
Sending you positive vibes and hugs for your big day Flowers

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ladylambkin · 29/02/2016 22:44

Good luck sending lots of love and strength to you

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peaceoftheaction · 29/02/2016 22:46

Your 2 year old will come around to the idea and the three of you can enjoy one another without that twatty ex in your lives. A massive unMN hug to you and there will be lots of us looking forward to your updates here Smile Best of luck Brew Cake

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nicenewdusters · 29/02/2016 22:54

Another one here who's been following your thread, so excited to see this one ! I understand that you can't help wanting to hear something from your ex, it's such an emotional time. But share this amazing time with those around you who really love and care for you, you know that doesn't include him.

Wishing you a peaceful night and all the very best for tomorrow x

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hurtandconfued2016 · 01/03/2016 06:14

Thanks everyone that's me on the way to the hospital now absolutely terrified haha had my last night just cuddling my little boy!

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Colchestergal · 01/03/2016 06:38

Good luck!!

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Allnamesaretakenffs · 01/03/2016 06:40

I hope he shits hedgehogs. Good luck with everything!!

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sandgrown · 01/03/2016 06:43

Good Luck x

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Tearsoffrustration · 01/03/2016 06:54

Good luck! x

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hurtandconfued2016 · 01/03/2016 12:16

Well everyone that's my little lady here weighing 7lb 12 :) all happy and healthy eating

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peppercold · 01/03/2016 12:21

Congratulations! SmileFlowers

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pocketsaviour · 01/03/2016 12:26

Congratulations! Wonderful news :) Flowers Star

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jayho · 01/03/2016 12:27

Congratulations!!Flowers

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peaceoftheaction · 01/03/2016 12:27

thats lovely Smile Smile congratulations from me too! Flowers Brew

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Panther79 · 01/03/2016 12:29

Congratulations!
Enjoy the snuggles Flowers

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ToTheLeft · 01/03/2016 12:31

Congratulations op! Flowers

Here's to new beginnings with your little family, you, your DS and DD. You will be amazing together.

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Colchestergal · 01/03/2016 12:38

Congratulations!!

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MissBeaHaving · 01/03/2016 12:42

Congratulations! Thanks

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OccamsRazorSharpner · 01/03/2016 13:30

Hurrah! [st davids]

Time for a name change I think?

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OccamsRazorSharpner · 01/03/2016 13:31
St Davids
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clashofclanswidow · 01/03/2016 13:33

Yay, congratulations =)

How do you feel? =) xx

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TheGirlWhoWasntThere · 01/03/2016 14:02

Congratulations.
I've been following your other threads and just want to wish you and your two children a happy, healthy and wonderful future together. You deserve to be happy so much.
They are lucky to have such a strong mum.

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nicenewdusters · 01/03/2016 17:25

A trio of loveliness !! Wishing you all the luck for the future xx

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