We live in different countries. Every year she returns to our home country to visit her children who are grown, and their children. They are in a different city to me.
This year I suggested that I take my children to meet her and her children/grandchhildren to a children's event and picnic (it's hot here) and she was keen.
Now she has messaged to say that actually none of them can make it but she'd love a ride back with me so she can visit a friend of hers in my city.
To be honest I feel like cancelling. I don't want to drive for 4 hrs to give her a lift to her friend's. I'm disappointed the kids' day thing isn't working out but more than that, that she has no interest in spending time with me and only sees me as an opportunity for a free ride.
Or am I being over sensitive?
Thoughts appreciated but please be kind as I am already sad about this.
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Would I be overreacting to say no to my sister?
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JerryFerry · 29/02/2016 19:00
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