Ok, need to vent with this latest reason for me to be pissed of with hb.
Hb Mentioned couple of weeks ago about taking me to my favourite restaurant for Mothers Day, I said yep, that would be lovely and left it at that. I assumed (wrongly, of course) that he would grow a brain cell and book a table straight away as this particular place is always full as he well knows.
Cue today, he casually mentions he only contacted them this morning and shock, horror, they only have one table left and its at midday. He didn't book it because he will be finishing a night shift on Sunday and will only have chance to get around 6 hours sleep before we would have to head out.
So, his big gesture is he is going to cook me a meal at home. That is it. No going out for a couple of hours being spoilt, nothing, and he thinks I am ungrateful because I am not praising him for deciding to cook me a meal.
Breakfast and supper I can guarantee it will be me doing it all as usual.
I cook for the entire family every single fucking day and I am supposed to be overjoyed that he can be bothered to cook for me ONCE.
So now he is asking where else I would like to go, what would I like to do etc etc etc. We have been married for almost 18 years and he cannot be bothered to use his initiative to arrange something I would like - his excuse is that I am hard to buy for or surprise!! Er, I like sparkly stuff, chocolate, nice wine, smellies, tickets to a show and so on. He fucking well KNOWS this!!
I lost it and told him I shouldnt have to tell him what to buy/where to go or arrange my own fucking Mothers day, it is for him to show how much he thinks of me!! Are all husbands this fucking bone idle when it comes to willingly show someone how much you appreciate them??
I am getting the impression he is laying the groundwork for it to be a shit Mothers Day.
Tempting to say I would actually like money and to go out on my own for the day and spoil myself.
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Husband hinting Mothers Day is gonna be a huge hassle - for him. Need to vent!
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