Dear all,
Don't know where to start and I'm sorry if this is not explained properly. Recently PIL have upset my DH and messed us about badly with an ongoing issue. Trying to support my DH by telling him that he wasn't imagining things and that they just deal with things badly. One of his parents was physically and emotionally abusive towards DH from a young age, but has turned over a new leaf and regrets their past actions. The trouble is, now my OH is still scared of this parent and feels like he can never defend himself. They are still upset about the recent fall out and have snubbed him, preferring to see another sibling who rarely bothers with them today. DH has been quiet and contemplative the last week and I assumed it's because he was processing the events.
We had a bit of a disagreement this afternoon that escalated really quickly. He told me I was just like my mother - fat, nasty and controlling. There was a crazed look in his eyes, he was really mad. He involved our daughter in this as she was eating her dinner and made her cry, telling her that I was kicking him out. We took the disagreement outside the kitchen, and I said I needed space away from him. He wouldn't leave despite me begging him, despite me explaining that I needed some space from him. I grabbed my keys and my coat and he barred the door. He told me I wasnt going anywhere. I asked hi to leave again because his behaviour wasn't normal. DH has just left the house having kicked me and holding me round the arms and shoulders, pulling me away from the the door to stop me leaving. He was like a crazed man. I don't know what to do. I know he'll come back and apologise (he's never hit me before).
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Husband going out of his mind - PIL related and possible trigger
wibblypig1 · 27/02/2016 17:17
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