I am really struggling at the moment. Had a wonderful, fun relationship with a new bloke for the last 5 months and he has dumped me last week.
I have been a single mum to my 2 dcs for the last 7 years, life has been really busy. I work and get some support from family as arsehole xh decided upon us splitting that he would never see our children again. My life with him pretty much put me off any other men for life!
Apart from a brief fling a couple of years ago i pretty much resigned myself to the fact that I would be single until the children were much older. (And decent men in late 30's, 40's are very thin on the ground anyway!)
So I was a bit hesitant when new bloke asked me out last year but I had known him a long time as our children attend an activity together. All has been great all this time, we have had time alone often but equally spend time with the dcs together (he is a lone parent also) who have always been friends anyway.
Here comes the shit bit. My youngest dc is not the easiest of children, life has always been difficult somewhat with behaviour and she is very highly strung and just hard work all round really. New man has ended our relationship because of this after her last tantrum/meltdown last week.
I just did not see this coming as we had been having such a good time and had made many plans for future things to be doing. My suggestion about seeing each other without the dcs was snubbed that he would feel like he was using me as it'd just be about sex!! (That's the other sad part, the sex was fantastic and we really just clicked)
I just feel so sick and bereft. Lost 6 pound this week as can't eat and I'm not sleeping. I am just so pissed off. I was doing fine on my own and now I feel like he has set me back years.
I don't know what I'm asking and sorry this is long (I have name changed too) but I just need to get this out and would love to hear any advice of when I might start feeling better as life and whole shit future ahead of me at the moment just feels so depressing.
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Feeling so down. Dumped!
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Sad4EverMore · 27/02/2016 15:54
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