We haven't been together long ( living together ), I knew he worked away a bit when we got together but he told me he did this because he was unhappy with his ex and then was single and had nothing else to do. His job involves working away quite a bit ( more so in the summer ), this weekend is the3rd time he's been away since we have been living together and I am finding it really hard , he says he hates being away from me, misses me etc..etc.. But he has hardly messaged me despite him not actually doing much work until later today. I kind of feel like I'm sat around at home waiting for him to call, waiting for him to come back. Last time wasn't this bad, maybe it's because I have awful PMT at the moment and I am feeling a little insecure?
I know it's going to get worse in the summer as he will be working away most weeks and I will hardly see him. Originally I thought having a man who works away a bit would be a good thing, means we wouldn't get on each other's nerves, means we would enjoy it when he got home ( due to missing each other ) but instead I feel really annoyed by the time he gets home ( being stuck at home struggling with my 2 dc's and trying to work from home ). I don't want him to think I can't cope without him here, I know I can as I have coped without a man around for quite a while.
Does anyone else find it hard having a partner that works away? Does it get easier?
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Anyone else struggle with partner who works away a lot?
Lovemusic33 · 27/02/2016 08:10
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