My older daughter who is in her mid-twenties recently became engaged.
She wants me and my partner to give her advice, because her father-in-law to be wants her to sign a pre-nuptial agreement. When she asked him why the conversation became awkward, and she doesn't really understand what is going on. It appears to be a) something to do with attempting to ring-fence money related to a businesses that are are owned by older generations (i.e. grandparents) of the family and b) the fact that somewhere along the line another marriage in the family broke up and the bride 'went off with the gold'
My daughter and her partner are both working hard and are both paying off the joint mortgage. Although he's well paid, he doesn't have enormous wealth. His parents are comfortably off - pleasant modern house - but not hugely rich. My daughter and her partner don't have children yet and there are no children from previous relationships.
Just wondered how other parents of adult daughters might feel in this situation.
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Adult Daughter and Pre-Nuptial Agreements.
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plurabelle · 26/02/2016 09:51
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