Hi I'm new to mumsnet :) im feeling quite down at the moment, I'm 30 weeks pregnant but midwife thinks I'll go in a few weeks due to many complications etc. I already have a little girl of 22 months and I've been with my partner for 10 years. Recently I've started to realise how selfish he really is. I work full time, currently off on maternity leave, he is unemployed and doesn't receive anything, he expects me to give him money all the time and moans if I don't. He smokes weed (not around me he will go in the garden) and if he doesn't have any he takes it out on me, he gets really short tempered and being around him is like walking on egg shells, so then I feel like I have to give him money for it just for a bit of peace! He plays video games all day, I've been asking him to take some heavy bags out for days but I just ended up doing it, even though I'm struggling to walk with this pregnancy. I do everything for our little girl and I just know that I'm going to end up doing everything with the new baby. When I put our daughter to bed, all I want is to enjoy my night with him, eat junk food and watch telly.. But even then he's either on a game on the PlayStation or a game on his phone, I just feel really neglected, and if I confront him about it he acts like it's all my fault and I'm making an issue out of nothing. He says he goes on them because he's bored! I don't know what he expects me to do! Am I being silly? Just don't know what to do anymore, I'm even going in to give birth on my own because I don't want him there and he isn't even bothered.
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