I'm lonely. I've just got home from mother and toddler group. And I could cry. I feel so inadequate. Everyone else chats and socialises with ease (it seems) and I feel so awkward the whole time! Yes I make small talk while I'm there and there is a girl who I would love to be friends with. She's really nice and we seem quite similar, except for the fact that she is more outgoing.
I'm an introvert and enjoy my own company but it would be nice to have a friend. Someone I can...I don't even know what I want. It's got so bad I'm not even sure I know how to be a friend, what being a friend even means. Sometimes I see "girlfriends" on tv and think I just can't imagine ever being like that with someone. I feel like I'm missing out on a huge chunk of life. After all, isn't life all about relationships? Why can't I connect with someone? I am starting to think there might be someone thing wrong with me. I don't want to come across like I have a chip on my shoulder because I don't, but often I feel like I give the impression of being a bit weird. Someone you can make small talk with but not someone you'd want to get to know. I'm not though. I'd love a friend and I'd love to be a friend to someone else.
I don't know what I expect to gain from posting on here. I suppose I'm hoping I'm not the only one who feels like this. And I would like some advice on how to make a friend. Like literal, step by step advice. It seems I really need it.
I should add that my youngest child is 3 so I feel like I'm on my last chance to make a friend over the next couple of months of mother and toddler groups. After that she will be at nursery and I have no idea what I'll do then. I'll be so alone.
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Annabelle001 · 23/02/2016 13:26
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