I apologise in advance, I may ramble a bit.
DP of 14 years finished our relationship 4 days ago. We have 3 year old DD.
He says we don't understand each other, he isn't in love with me anymore, and doesn't think we're right for each other anymore. I agree that we haven't been getting on for some time, however I put most of this down to 3 years of intense stress and various traumas.
He's left and I'm now living with my parents with DD.
I feel like I am living outside of myself looking in. I am heartbroken, confused and utterly terrified of what the future holds. I cannot believe he would do this to our child without fighting to make this work.
I am trying to think practically now so I'm desperately searching some advice. What do I do as far as maintenance is concerned? How much contact can he have? I can't sleep for worrying poor DD is going to be passed from pillar to post on the whim of his contact wishes. She needs consistency and routine.
This feels like a nightmare I can't wake up from.
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lostandsoscared · 21/02/2016 09:11
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