I have a male work colleague with whom I've got quite friendly. Nothing sexual, just a few texts about common interests and a few amusing stories from dates we've been on. He's recently started seeing a woman who's had to go abroad for 6 months with work, which has obviously got him a bit down. They've been texting, he sent valentines gifts, etc. Looked like it could work out.
However. I went out for drinks with other colleagues a couple of nights ago and they began talking about this guy's relationship. The woman happens to be a friend of one of the women there and it transpires the girlfriend has been taking the mick out of my friend's keenness, laughing at his "shit valentine" etc. Not only that, but she currently has her ex out there at the moment in the hope of getting back together. I felt really upset and eventually said this woman really needs to do the decent thing and end it with our colleague.
What do I do? It would be awful to tell the poor guy but, equally, I don't think I could listen to him telling me about how he's looking forward to X returning, etc. without feeling like a complete bitch. Whats does anyone think?
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DraenorQueen · 18/02/2016 11:13
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