I have 2DC. DD is from a previous relationship. She has expressed a desire to have the same surname as her baby brother and therefore DP. She has very limited contact with her Dad.
Anyway DP and me aren't married, so I don't have that surname either.
This issue is this.
I told DP DD's wishes. Then said "but by the time you marry me, so I can have your surname, she will probably be grown up and moved out" this was said in a lighthearted tone. His reply was "gaggia, the more you keep going on about this marriage thing, the more I'm going to dig my heels in and not do it"
I hadn't realised i bang on about it. Maybe I do. I hadn't realised he was digging his heels in. I dont know what answers I want really. I just feel sad.
DD is 5 and DS is 5m if its relevant.
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Dont know what to make of this.
gaggiagirl · 17/02/2016 14:16
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