Hi. Im after a bit of a rant/ advice. My step son is 9 and i have been with his dad since before he was born as husband and mum split not long after he was concieved. We have 3 children of our own and we have step son every 2nd weekend.
We have had various issues over the years but generally there has been a decent relationship between us all. In the holidays i always offer to have him for a bit if we are going on days out etc as he doesnt seem to get out much this has always worked well.
Suddenly he has told my husband that he doesnt feel part of the family, husbands mum had him last night for a sleep over and hes told her his mum has told him we dont love him as much as we love his other kids. His mum has apparently the told grandma this morning that hes playing up really bad and hes picking on his younger siblings at her home and that shes at tbe end of her teather with him. Hes good as gold for us and 2 of my children are special needs and he is fab with them. I dont know what is going on but me and husband are really upset/confused.
Has anyone any experience i anything similar?
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step son and his mum advice please
ddeemummy · 14/02/2016 11:40
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