First of all sorry for the long post, and I know this is a really insignificant 'problem' in relation to a lot that are on here. But I suppose I'm not sure what to do. I've been going out with a group of friends and for the past couple of times myself and one of the guys have been getting on really well, so well he offered me a lift last time. On the way home he told me he liked me and would like to do something together away from the group (we did kiss). All good so far. Yesterday he phoned and we were trying to arrange when would be good, I told him I couldn't do certain days because I was doing things with my kids...cue very quiet line, then he said quite quietly that didn't realise I had kids.. ( I had told him). Anyway, we spoke a little bit more, and ended with him saying he'd text me the details today of our dinner date for Saturday, but he was quite curt when ending the call.
But It didn't sit right with me so a bit later I texted and said he'd seemed surprised I had kids, no bother if it worries him etc.. He text back an hour later saying no, it was fine he'd just assumed I didn't.
This morning, a text from him suggesting a lunchtime meet, in a cafe.. So I just text back saying sounds great..
This afternoon, another text from him suggesting what time we should meet up there. So he's now not picking me up ( which he was originally going to do, oh, and I'm not precious..I'm perfectly able to make my own way, it's just the change that's surprising me really)
Gut feeling is I've been completely friend zoned/blown out before we've even gone anywhere, but I now feel really awkward in even going, because I think maybe he's just going because he said he would..
I guess I'm looking for opinions? Cancel or go?
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Has he changed his mind?
BlitheAndBonny · 12/02/2016 17:47
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