Hi,
Sorry if this is long but I need some advice and I've no body to talk to. myself and my husband have been married for 10 years and have three children together. He also has a child from a previous relationship. when we were first together, he was still with the mother of his child although he always said they had split up the week before. Roll on a few years and we get married. soon after we married I was using his phone and a few messages from a girl he worked with popped up. All very innocent like 'how are you? ' and ' any plans for today' but I never felt comfortable with the texts. A few years later messages from a different girl he worked with popped up and we had a huge argument and he walked out. He moved into his friends but I asked him to come back about a month later. I had my suspicions that he was with this girl in that time as when I went to his friends he was never there and would never answer his phone. We worked through it but he never admitted he was with her. I fell pregnant a while after but about a year after our child was born I found more messages from another girl. He told her he loved her and wanted to be with her. He left me after that and we had quite a rocky relationship. He called me horrible names and acted like I never meant anything to him. He moved in with this girl but after about a year he started to text me again. He told me he wasn't happy and when he came to see the kids he would stay and we would sleep together. He would tell me he missed the kids but he never said he missed me and never apologised for leaving. We started talking about giving it another go and him leaving her but I told him he'd have to go to counselling and stay out of contact with her. But now he won't answer any questions I have about what happened between them. He has gone on like she never existed and never had a relationship with her and told me he never slept with her in the time they were together. would you believe him? Will I regret taking him back? Do you think he will do it again? how can someone act like they never had a relationship in the time we were apart?
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Would you take him back?
tellmethetruth2016 · 05/02/2016 22:13
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