We were together for two years and I could feel him drifting away over the last six months I asked time and time again if we were ok and he said yes it was jut work ..
I asked again just before Xmas if we were ok and we still wanted the same things to move into together to get married eventually and he said yes.
We spent the week at his parents over the Xmas with my son and his two girls and as we were leaving he said if he was to buy a house back home then I would have to move over I said yes but we had discussed this and we had planned to go back when my son had finished his education here ... We'd only just got back and he said he was going home again that weekend I asked him not too and he said he was so I'd said he was going home as a single man he went and I never heard from him .... I asked to meet him when he got back he said he didint love me we had nothing in common and he realised when we were at his parents for Xmas .... I left it for a month as I thought it would give him time to realise and miss me I contacted him today he told me he didint want me any more and is not commited to us .... I'm struggling with it all my heads a mess I sent him a message just before that to tell him how amazing he was and how he'd changed me and made me into a better person and how I missed everything about him I begged and pleaded for him to not do this and feel not only heartbroken but humiliated ..... I had my heartbroken before by my sons dad who I was with for 16 years and took me 5 years to get over it completely .as that was such a painful break with him cheating .... This man I wanted to marry and settle down with I accepted his children and his lifestyle of travelling backwards and forwards and been busy with work constantly we are both nearly 40 I know he doesn't want me any more but I'm struggling with it and can't understand what's just happened and he's lied to me for so long and knowing he won't loose any sleep from it And will be glad it's over I just feel like now I got in his way and I never ment anything to him and that hurts like mad I miss everything about him how do I get through this and stop loving and wanting him ...I can't bare the thought of the pain all over again
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Split with my partner I'm heartbroken
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Angieyy1 · 04/02/2016 20:07
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