So I am a single dad new on the dating scene. This is the second woman I have dated so far. So still new to it. I liked her and all seemed to be going well. The conversation flowed well both sides, we were laughing and joking, we shared common ground and she was stunning. She had the most beautiful eyes. Then she popped out and said she had a call from a friend who she had to go out and help and this cut the date short. I am not entirely sure if it was not an excuse to make a sharp exit. The date ended with a kiss before she left and she said we should defiantly do it again. I think I rushed the kiss because I was nervous and already worried that I was being blown out. I kick myself later for this because she had the most lovely soft lips and I would have loved a big long kiss. Also that would of helped me judge her level of interest. But I don't know if she is just being nice. May be I am over reading into things. When she was talking about her reasons for leaving the eye contact seemed to go. This made me a bit concerned this maybe an excuse to leave. So I am really confused to if she likes me or not. If she wasn't interested I would must prefer her tell me, I am a big boy. I will leave it a bit to chat her because she said she is sorting out her friends personal issues and last thing she'll want is me bothering her I guess.
I am not sure if I lived up to her expectations. We have been talking a lot online and we had talked about getting very intimate. I think something we are both looking want and to be honest hungry for. My worry is I didn't initiate really any body contact or go in for trying to hold her hand or anything physical. Did I do the right thing for a first date or should I have just go for it all guns blazing? I did really fancy her but I am very reserved initially until I get comfortable with someone, then I am the opposite. I am very passionate. Based on our online talking maybe she wanted me to sweep her off her feet and take her into my arms. And if the night had of continued I am sure I would have warmed up a bit and been all those things as I was defiantly interest. So was I too wooded to start off with considering we had struck up relationship online?
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New to dating. Have I been blown out?
1DAD2KIDS · 30/01/2016 11:14
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