I am literally about to give birth (38 weeks) and have had to move back to my parents. I have no idea where to begin........
My now ex boyfriend had quite a complicated relationship prior to myself (she was leading a double life and was seeing and subsequently got married to someone else/she was abusive both physically and mentally/he was diagnosed with clinical depression as a result)
But unbeknownst to me there had been periods where she was still in contact and even sleeping with my now ex partner. It is like she has this magic hold over him and he couldn't let go. There would be months with no contact and she would drag him back in with manipulation (I understand he is a grown adult and allows this to happen)
She even harassed me and I was forced to go to the police about it. It all went to court and i have a 2 year restraining order against her. Her husband/family/employers have no idea about this 2nd life/criminal reco d(she also has a previous conviction for bank fraud from 9 years ago)......... Lovely lady I'm sure you agree!
My ex partner has started on anti depressants just before we found out we we're pregnant (surprise pregnancy) and had only started counselling before xmas. He was absolutely amazing the 1st few months.
But it has come to light all this on and off contact with his psyco ex . I found emails at new year as he was behaving oddly and asked him to leave. During that week it was like he had lost his head but was saying he still loved me and the baby . But he slept with her and spent the night in a hotel room with her .
Now all mine and his family are aware of the situation. I have left him and ended things and now only have contact via txt.
I am so confused,hurt,angry etc.......... He is begging to prove this is not the real him and the version he was at the beginning is. He says he understands all the hurt he has caused and will continue counselling/ education and will prove his worth .
I am exhausted and devastated and have no idea what to do. Please help!?
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8 months pregnant and feel alone
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Nicjd85 · 28/01/2016 00:36
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