I have been involved with someone whom I suspect was emotionally abusive, narcissistic, etc.
Most signs were everything was about him in the end, his tiredness, his stress, his job, his needs, his moods.
He did some very cruel things to me.
When I finally called him out on what he did, he minimised, deflected, stonewalled, & made me feel bad for raising things that upset me to the extent where I apologised to him. I caught him cheating and he made me feel sorry for him.
Now we're not together he moved on at lightening speed. All friendly on Facebook with the new one and all her friends and his friends.
I actually feel sick that it seems like he got on with life straight away and rode off happily into the sunset and isliving the high life.
Im almost obsessing over the fact that I was the only one he will treat this way and i was therefore deserving of it. I almost have to know if this poor treatment will come out again in his new relationship.
Did anyone else feel this way?
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SoThatHappened · 26/01/2016 14:47
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