I am mystified as to why any woman would knowingly become the OW.
My friend's marriage was destroyed by her DH's affair last year. Why would any woman choose to sleep with a married man especially one with children?
Statiscally I imagine those affairs that end in a happy, faithful marriage between the affair partners are a tiny minority.
Getting a shag from a single bloke isn't fucking difficult. If a woman is just after sex there's plenty of options other than a married man.
And if it's the soulmates bullshit, well it takes a lot of fucking steps to get to the point of feeling that way.
The reality for most is, I would guess, a snatched hour or two of furtive fucking. Lots of time waiting around for a call or text. Being let down at the last minute.
Why would anyone settle for so little? You hear of women who wait years for the man to leave and he never does. Their whole life on hold waiting for an event that doesn't happen.
How is it justified by OW morally. The man is the one who made the vows I guess?
My friend's husband was a knob anyway and was thinking with his dick. But he didn't make the OW any promises and months later I can't see the appeal for her.
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Why would anyone become the OW?
StillAgainstTheWind · 25/01/2016 16:10
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