Hi,
I'm posting this here, because I couldn't work out where is the best place.
My DS and his really lovely wife have split up. There are no children, no marital assets, no OM/OW. At present they have simply moved into separate bedrooms.
I'm gutted, I love DIL like a daughter, I always have. What's the 'norm' if they end up divorced? Is it weird to still want to be part of her life? She says she is still part of the family, but is that just DIL trying to not upset me? What's the norm if they find other partners? Will she just move on and that's it? I hope not. What's the best way to help her? I don't want her to feel she 'has' to be part of the family and I don't want her to feel we've abandoned her? I don't want her to feel I'm stalking her either. At birthdays, Christmas, family events, will she feel awkward if we invite? Will she feel over powered by us or that we are trying to force them to stay together? Is it best for her to keep inviting her even?
I really do love her, but I don't want her to feel bullied into a relationship she doesn't want. She is a really quiet and thoughtful lady, I would ask her, but surely that could come over as confrontational?
Any advice is much appreciated.
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Millionsmom · 23/01/2016 11:46
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