In my other thread I was seeking advice about fining out I was pregnant by a lying cheater, I ended it, told him I was keeping the baby and moved on. A lady I know that is a friend of a friend messaged both myself and his partner on fb and let the cat out of the bag so to speak.
Now he's asking if we can make a go of it and I am spinning again, my head is all over the place.
The facts are that
- I love him
- I'm carrying his child
- He lies to me
- She has left him and I feel like his sloppy second choice
- I don't trust him
- She has messaged him saying 'if she keeps that baby you will never see out kids again'.
He now wants me to have a termination because this baby is unwanted and unloved (his words not mine) and then stay in a relationship with him!
Is he just a completely manipulative bastard or scared or what, I'm having a major bipolar downer at the moment and can't even begin to see this straight.