Just posting for some moral support really.
Been with my alcoholic partner for 10 years, every time he comes home pissed and aggressive (Not violent but angry ranting and raving), I resolve to leave him, but when the next day comes and he is full of remorse and back to the person I love we give it another try. Round and round in circles.
He even said tonight he doesn't want to be with me anymore, he wants to be left alone to be able to live how he wants in peace (will change his mind tomorrow).
I know I'm better than this but how do I keep my resolve to end this relationship? It's not as simple as one of us moving out right away, we are both skint and need to put the house on the market and sell it first which could take months.
Sound so weak and pathetic but how can I do this and stick to my decision? We're both fighting for something we don't even want, but how do we stop?
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Momewrath · 05/01/2016 23:56
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