Hello,
I feel like a bit of an intruder because I'm not a mum but I need some advice and came across this forum and felt that I could find some help here.
So let me start at the beginning. I'm in my 20s and in my first serious relationship. We have been together for 2 years now and everything is going great except for our sex life. I was a virgin when we met and lost my virginity to my boyfriend last November. At first, I found it extremely painful to have sex. At first it was excruciating but after a few months I got used to it, although it was still quite painful.
I am on the pill now and we have stopped using condoms and it has gotten so much better. I don't find it painful at all anymore, which is great. But I still haven't had an orgasm after over a year. And what's worse is that I really don't like sex at all, I see it as a chore. I don't even enjoy it when my boyfriend touches me or when we are kissing. Before we had sex, I used to love being physical with him but now I just can't wait to get it over with and go to sleep.
He has been really supportive and understanding but his sex drive is also much higher than mine. I don't want to keep turning him down and, to be honest, I am frustrated too because I want to have a good physical relationship and enjoy sex too.
I'm not really sure what to do, we have just been trying to keep going with the hope that it's going to improve, but after over a year I am starting to lose hope!
I would appreciate any help at all! Thanks a lot ladies!
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