I've been in an on/off relationship with the father of my two dcs for several years. We had split up for 18 months and I was very happy living alone with our dd but I fell pregnant due to sleeping with ex just once. After our second dc was born we tried again to rekindle our relationship, I really needed some help with dcs after my caesarean and ex was great.
Since then I've been living with him for three months. Now I feel invisible. I do grocery shopping, cook meals, look after the dcs. When I tell him I feel lonely and am considering moving out he gets upset and I feel guilty. But the truth is that he never makes time for family things, we never go anywhere, we don't do family trips etc. I took the dc to see Father Christmas, I did all their presents etc. I was much happier when I lived without him but when I say I want to leave he makes me feel guilty. He goes to work and pays the bills, but I can go to work and pay the bills.
There's no love in the relationship. What will happen if I don't leave? I'm so fed up.
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What will happen if I stay in this relationship?
Orangesubmarine · 31/12/2015 20:59
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