So, I got a message from someone I've never heard of (very common name, think Tony Smith so hundreds on FB) at 2.35am today saying 'your husband is using the Internet for casual sex' No name of husband or any identifying details, literally just those words.
I deleted the message and haven't spoken to dh about it as he was working nights last night and is now in bed.
Gut instinct tells me this is bullshit but wondering whether to even mention it to dh.
No absolutely no reason to suspect. I didn't delete it intentionally, it had an accept button next to it, I pressed no and it deleted the message. I will mention to dh later once he is up, see what he says. I have checked his FB friends and no one of that name in there, I'm assuming it is someone being a dick.
In all honesty, I think it is some dickhead messing about and sending random messages to people for kicks. Just like when I was younger, people would do the same thing but over the phone. Before things like 1471.
If you get a message from someone who is not you friend, you now get to options - accept, which tells the sender that you've viewed the message and allows you to reply, and reject, which deletes the message. You can also press back and do nothing.
With such limited information, this is probably a scam.