This is the least christmassy post I will ever write but I have to get it out so here goes.
I live with two highly explosive individuals. DH and DD who is 17. I have another 3 DSs too but we don't have the same propensity to let rip.
Earlier this evening DD had a massive mad emotional explosion for some minor misdemeanour which I can't remember the details of. I think I had the temerity to ask her to bring her cup and plate over so I could wash them up. Anyway she had her usual immediate blast off so DH followed suit taking it as personally as he could and pouring shit loads of petrol onto the DD fire.
It's 4 hours later now. The evening was completely ruined. DS and I didn't go round the corner to our friend's house for drinks after all. I've been pouring over stuff on the internet about how to handle explosive people then talking DH down and trying to work out a Christmas-saving strategy with him.
Meanwhile my 10 year old DS has found his own pillowcase for Santa to fill and taken himself off to bed. Now abusive DD and DH have made up and are having drinks and a cheeseboard downstairs while I'm still reeling in the wake of their ridiculous emotional explosions.
I know from reading the psychobabble I'm meant to just bite the bullet and be nice to them to try to find out what is really the problem and why they are so touchy about stuff.
Actually I'm upstairs seething with resentment that they can now move on with their lives, have a lough, hang out together, while I'm up here with my Christmas eve' ruined, feeling anything but good will, and my gorgeous 10 year old Christmassy boy has taken himself off to sleep probably to escape the horror of these emotionally incontinent car crashes.
They are selfish fuckwits who never seem to notice how their ludicrous drama-spats affect the rest of us.
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Spidermama · 24/12/2015 21:58
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