Ok so he's bought me a new phone for Christmas which i wanted that cost a couple of hundred pounds and then yesterday evening i was meant to be going out for a family get together, so I phoned and asked him would it be ok to go out with family members and guess what the answer was NO your taking the piss yet i am 27 years old and have to ask his permission to go out only to be told NO i really have had enough and will be chatting to womans aid to get a safety plan put in place and also a foster place for my dog until i can get myself sorted and away from this horrible person.
Well done for deciding to leave. I second others that you should leave the phone at home. If he is that controlling, I'd bet it has tracking software and spyware. Please don't just ask for a safety plan, but for a leaving plan.