Heads up I might include a bit too much info at some point,
So me and my partner have been together two and half years we both came from bad relationships and had trust issues, we voiced our thoughts and havery regular heart to hearts which seems to be going great, I try my very best to reassure him and he does the same, we got engaged just over a month ago and things seemed to be going great, the problem is he seems to be taking everything either personal or blowing some thing way out of proportion and making a mountain out of a molehill, a few instances we went up the town and just because I looked in the direction of the butchers apparently I'm eyeing the butcher up, I don't go out much other than school run and shopping straight after school but I'm always home by 4pm, he has more than once accused me of smelling like my children's father, for one he should no I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot barge pole if he was on fire and I had water I'd drink it. The latest thing is we had a really amazing day yesterday forgot all our troubles and just had a great day with each other play fighting laughing cuddled up and watched a film it was the perfect day, in till we started having sex Im the one who instigated it I got dressed up and took control in the bedroom the only problem is I've got shaving rash on my groin which he knows about as I repositioned my leg I squinted because it was sore, he sore the look and jumped up appalled at me, he had ago at me saying that I'm fake and no one had ever made hi feel like that before I tried to explain to him what it was but it fell on deaf ears he trudged up old arguments from two years ago and we barley spoke since, I've tried talking to him but all he says is he hasn't the the energy to and shuts me down, he has got a lot going on at the moment he is going through a custody battle with his son he hasn't seen since july, so normally I'd put it down to him causing an argument just because he needs to vent but this feels different.
I'm the one who purposed to him and every chance he gets he takes the ring claiming he doesn't want to ruin it, he sneaks out in the middle of the night to ,"walk have a run or go to the 24/7 shop, he has called me by his exs name a number of times in his sleep and tells me to fuck off if I try and cuddle up to him all of these things hurt my feelings but I dont throw my dummy out of the pram at everything.
I don't no what to do anymore
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