Split with my exh about 9 months ago as he "wasnt in love" with me anymore. It seems there was no OW as he isn't in a relationship as far as I can tell and at the time we split I checked his emails/phone etc and found nothing.
He is a good dad and has the kids 3 nights a week and is on time with maintainable etc.
It seems to hurt me more that it wasn't for an OW and he just didn't want to be with me any more.
I asked him the other day how long he had really felt like this and he said "about 6 years"
It has really knocked me for six. I am really upset that the last 6 years have been totally wasted while he wasn't emotionally invested in me.
It has made me feel very sad when I was just coming to terms with things.
How do you come to terms with what was essential a wasted 6 years for me.
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