I need some advice. Been married almost 2 years. Relocated to Hong Kong 4 months ago for my job. Also as a new start for hubby. Previously we lived in London.
We have been together since 2008 and have had up and downs before. He has displayed behaviour before which I feel, after researching online, could be emotionally abusive.
Lately I have been really struggling as he has been shutting me out completely. He is not working at the moment but says he has been looking. He won't discuss his job search with me, what he gets up to during the day when I try to make conversation. I try to be supportive but he won't allow me. It's getting financially tough for me to support both of us on my own.
Having waited 4 months before raising the topic of money, I was forced to raise this recently. He makes me feel bad saying things like 'I'm a burden' and 'I make you angry'. He basically just shuts the whole dialogue down.
I am spending Xmas in the UK and he in HK - too proud to ask his mother for help to send him home. I couldn't afford to pay for both of us. He is barely texting me. All affection cut off. We haven't had sex for ages.
I can't stand the stonewalling and cut off of affection. I don't know what to do. Advice greatly appreciated.
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BassettHound85 · 19/12/2015 21:13
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