A year ago enormous cracks appeared in my marriage. I was utterly utterly desperate. I think my situation was up there with the most severe abusive/controlling marriages that've been on MN for a while & you all rallied round. When I thought 'there's no way I can do this', when I clawed myself along by my fingertips, you were all here to help me & keep me going. Now here I am, Deckthehallswithdesperation has turned into the Queenofhappiness! I am divorced. My kids are well. I am safe & secure. And most unbelievably of all, I have a new man. We're spending Christmas together. He's so loving/caring & generous I'm on cloud 9. Thank you so much everyone for pulling me through the most horrific experience of my entire life. I was bathed in acid & roasted in the fires of hell by my ex.
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Lovely thread OP I am so pleased for you! Gives me hope too that happiness might still be out there.
Have a lovely Christmas 
What a wonderful update, l remember your threads Deck. It sounds like 2016 is going to be a good one for you
This is lovely to read, I remember your posts in Hobbits Bar and I am really glad that you have managed to create a new life for you and your children! Huge congratulations and I hope that 2016 brings you the peace and happiness you deserve 
What a lovely catch up.
Congratulations and here's to the most wonderful of happy ever afters.
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