We've been together 3 years and dp proposed in April. I was so surprised and shocked. It was amazing to finally have that ultimate promise. He truly is a lovely caring person.
We were on cloud 9... 3 weeks later I find out I'm pregnant! Shit!
So he panics and I panic but we decide it's what we want.
I'm now nearing my 39th week and it's all falling apart. Is this me or hormones? AIBU?
We work together, as in own a business. But we've never been equal! He has all the. Intellectual capital, and since baby he's become obsessed with money. AIBU to not care about the finances but rather just being a family?
He claims I do nothing or give in and not help. I tells me to grow up constantly and that once I've done so we can sort this... We met for lunch after he left the house for a think.
Sat in silence till our food came, sobbing I asked what he was thinking... His response was "the usual" which is clients, agents, work work work! It broke me.
That even at that very moment he couldn't stop and see. That at that very moment we were falling apart. He asked me what I want from life... Does anyone know the answer? I told him "to get through today and then tomorrow and then the next day".
No answer...
We then continued the "talk" through text as I couldn't bare him and he kept saying "it doesn't have to be like this!"
I don't know what to do? Do I leave? Baby no1 due and I don't believe he truly understands what is happening/going to happen.
(Refuses to do any research into birth and babies)
I own nothing. No assets at all even though I've built his mini empire with him... Not that I truly care...
AIBU to tell him I don't want him at the birth anymore? That he should make arrangements to leave? That we're done... We have a registra meeting for marriage license on Monday. Do I use that to see if he truly wants "us" or not give him the chance?
It's at the point now where I can't stop crying! That I feel hopeless.
This is supposed to be an amazing time for us and I feel at a loss! Help MN!
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Tideaftertide · 19/12/2015 00:05
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