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How many sexual partners have you had?

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jamesdeandaydream Fri 18-Dec-15 21:10:21

And how old are you?

2 very personal questions I know so obviously only answer if you feel comfortable sharing. I'm just curious!

I'm almost 26 and have slept with 13 people. Is this considered to be a high number?

Theworldmakesnosense Fri 18-Dec-15 21:15:06

I know a girl of your age who is well in the hundreds so I wouldn't worry smile

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost Fri 18-Dec-15 21:15:24

I've had over 200 ONS. Some of their names I can't even remember, although I probably spent the night screaming their names.fgrin.
Been with my current partner for 2.5 years.

MoominPie22 Fri 18-Dec-15 21:15:33

I'm sure this was already an existing thread.............??

UptownFunk00 Fri 18-Dec-15 21:15:44

I'm 25 and slept with 2 people.

I've 'done other stuff with' about 6-8 people.

I don't judge anyone on their number. As long as both parties are consenting and single, I don't feel the need to judge.

But IMO I wouldn't bat an eyelid at you telling me this if you were my friend.

SpendSpendSpend Fri 18-Dec-15 21:16:00

Im 28 and have had intercourse with 24 people but have had sexual encounters without intercourse with around 6 people.

I ve only slept with the one person in the last 4 years though as thats when i met dh

goodnightdarthvader1 Fri 18-Dec-15 21:16:19

Blimey, OP. You go, girl.

Only 5 (I'm 32). I'm sheltered grin I will be encouraging my DD to "live" and have as many partners as she feels comfortable having. I regret not sowing my oats more, but I was way too shy in my teens and 20s.

Thunderblunder Fri 18-Dec-15 21:16:37

I'm 39 and have been with DH for 21 years.
I couldn't tell you how many sexual partners I have had. It's well over 3 figures.

UptownFunk00 Fri 18-Dec-15 21:17:20

Love it ILive at least you managed to remember their name during the deed, that speaks of great manners smile

jamesdeandaydream Fri 18-Dec-15 21:20:53

Wow I can't imagine getting into the hundreds but I've been single for a year now and I'm ready for some 'new experiences' let's just say grin I mentioned it to my friend who has only every slept with her boyfriend and she was shocked at my number so I was left wondering whether it was bad!

TesticleOfObjectivity Fri 18-Dec-15 21:21:11

I'm 27 and have slept with between 25 and 30 men I think. I don't know the exact number but it's around that mark. Those were all before I met dp about 7 years ago, well apart from dp of course!

jamesdeandaydream Fri 18-Dec-15 21:23:16

lighthouse over 200 ONS?! Is it bad that I can barely remember the names of some of mine and my number is nowhere near as high as yours

LuciaInFurs Fri 18-Dec-15 21:24:58

Im 24 and I have only slept with my husband.

Savagebeauty Fri 18-Dec-15 21:25:02

About 30.
I'm 55.
Did it all between 19 and 34.

QforCucumber Fri 18-Dec-15 21:27:40

About 40 ish, am 29. Been with dp for 5 years, single and living a student lifestyle for 5 years before him though.

CwtchMeQuick Fri 18-Dec-15 21:28:33

I'm 22 and I think I've slept with 14 men.
Sleep with as many people as you like imo, life is for shagging living

mamapants Fri 18-Dec-15 21:29:15

11, I'm 32

toffeeboffin Fri 18-Dec-15 21:29:28

I'm 33. I've slept with at least 30 but not more than 40.

lazymoz Fri 18-Dec-15 21:30:15

10 partners and I'm 45...only had 2 until I was 38 and then enjoyed some casual fun

toffeeboffin Fri 18-Dec-15 21:30:26

It's not high, OP.

Wish I'd slept with more blokes.

Moanranger Fri 18-Dec-15 21:33:19

Am 63 & have slept with 14. 12 til I married (24 yrs) then current partner is 14. Important to have experience. I have friend in an emotionally abusive relationship & she has never slept with anyone else & I think this is why she cannot seem to let go.
Sometimes it's special; sometimes it's just sex, and that's just fine.

twinklestheelf Fri 18-Dec-15 21:33:43

At least 50, I'm 31 and been with my husband since I was 19. I have no regrets, there's no shame in enjoying sex.

pocketsaviour Fri 18-Dec-15 21:39:20

I'm 42. I think it's about 20 odd.

NapoleonsNose Fri 18-Dec-15 21:44:50

43 and nine. Eight were between the ages of 16 and 20, then I met DH.

DifferentCats Fri 18-Dec-15 21:49:05

Enough that I am unable to treasure the memory of each of them. Too few to shock anyone with though.

I'm in my early Thirties.

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