I have been friends with X for 6 years; our DDs are at school together.
The thing that I am finding upsetting with X's behaviour is that she never ever acknowledges anything nice that goes on in my life, yet gushes praise and nice comments about everybody else.
Yesterday I met X for coffee. I have a new car and hadn't mentioned anything about it to her (or to anyone else) but when I pulled up at the coffee shop she pulled up in her car at the same time and said nothing about it. I know she noticed it though as she kept staring at it as we walked into the coffee shop.
I have recently lost 3 stone in weight. Again I've not really mentioned anything to her about it apart from saying months ago that I was starting Slimming World. I know my weight loss is noticeable though as it is getting to the stage where loads of people are mentioning it to me and saying I look good. Friend didn't mention a single thing about my weight loss but instead kept referring to another mum we know from the school, Y, and saying how Y has lost so much weight recently and that she looks fantastic.
Thirdly our DDs did a school christmas concert on Monday. Two children did a solo song; my DD and another girl. X kept saying about how good this other girl's solo was and what a superstar this girl is, how brave to sing solo etc etc but did not even acknowledge or mention that my DD had performed solo too. DD did equally as well as the other girl, and other parents came up to DH and I after the performance and said about how well DD did. I don't expect gushing praise about it from my friend but a bit of acknowledgement that DD performed too would have been nice.
It seems as though she does these things on purpose and deliberately praises other people whilst ignoring any achievements or events of mine, to try to make me feel bad.
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Why is my friend like this?
Tiliana · 18/12/2015 11:51
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