Background:
DS is 2, up until recently I have lived alone with him , it has been hard because for a lot of that time we were away from family and lots of uncertainty about housing.
DP is his dad and we've been together most of that time but he recently moved in.
I had some mental health problems, anxiety, OCD and depression badly the past few months but am improving and waiting for counselling.
So I've been basically slacking on the cleaning front,as in, I'll do it but it will be left to the end of the day, it wouldn't get in a massive state but it would be messy and take me a while to get the motivation.
Without fail DS has clean clothes and dinner sorted and played with and taken out for walks/to the park.
But DP keeps having a go at me and loosing his temper with me and shouting and saying I am sitting around feeling sorry for myself and I can't seem to make him understand that I'm struggling and trying my best.
I know I'm probably hard to live with ATM but I am trying. Sometimes he will do the washing up before I get round to it and say I'm being lazy and waiting for him to do it. I'm not, I intent to do it bit can't find the motivation, I wouldn't care if he didn't do it, I would get around to it I'd rather he did nothing and didn't have a go at me tbh.
He think s imnot being fair and in a way I'm not but I also sort of think he's not being fair, I've done the majority of looking after DS by myself for years and now I'm having problems I don't think it would be the end of the world for him to be supportive and help me a bit more.
This morning got up with DS ( I did yesterday, he isn't working today) but had a massive strop about it, kicked the stairgate in the kitchen then started shouting and saying I was a bad mother etc etc
Don't know how to fix this I just don't have the motivation
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Think DP is being unfair but not sure
Dinobab · 18/12/2015 10:38
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