Have been NC for what I consider to be good reasons since last April. People in MN have told me for years to go NC with her. Lots of nastiness, passive aggressive behaviour, slagged me off to dd and then denied it and said dd had mental health issues.
Ive had a couple of lengthy, nasty letters from her which I haven't responded to.
I did wonder if she would try and make amends over Xmas. Spoke to my brother yesterday.....he's also NC with her. Turns out she's sent a xmas card to my sil and nephew but not by brother. So they're obviously in the good books! Nobody here has had a xmas card, not me, not dd, not Dh. So I'm guessing we're all still literally of the xmas card list!
I should probably be glad......but I just guess this underlines that this is it. That she has no interest in trying to salvage our relationship like a normal mother would do.
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NC with my mum and feeling sad at Xmas.
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WhoTheFuckIsSimon · 16/12/2015 16:16
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