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It's over.

(4 Posts)
Marcher Wed 16-Dec-15 12:14:34

Well, after going back and forth for a couple months, it's over.
He's away for work at the moment, and I've told him not to come back. His clothes are packed and in the garage.
I'm 25 weeks pregnant with no3. He had an emotional affair, and I still don't feel I can trust him.
I'm beyond scared. I have no support network.
Deep breaths...

Cherrybakewells1 Wed 16-Dec-15 12:28:52

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

hellsbellsmelons Wed 16-Dec-15 12:33:29

I'm not surprised your are scared but you can do this.
Have you contacted CAB etc... to get all your benefits sorted out?
I hope you have a far happier life without this cheating scumbag in it.

inlectorecumbit Wed 16-Dec-15 13:04:15

You can do this, it will be difficult but you will get there.
What finally made your mind up. He seemed in your last thread to want to make it work?.
I think you have probably made the correct decision, you don't and can't trust him and you will need to get yourself sorted before you new DC arrives.
I hope you manage to have a decent Christmas with your wee family and that he steps up to the mark, pays his way and sees the DC's on a regular basis.
flowers

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