And I don't basically.
I'm just feeling a bit self concious at the moment, all in my own head though.
He is University educated, had a good job (is a SAHD now) has a large house, his kitchen is about the size of my whole downstairs. Mortgage paid off, nice car.
And I live in very small council accommodation with no assets or car.
He has never made me feel anything less than a princess and he says possessions are immaterial and he loves me whether I have a quid in the bank or a million. But he's not been to my house yet (long distance relationship ) and is due to soon. I just feel really ... well ashamed I think? That I never pushed for anything more than what I have here. My house is really tiny and cramped. One tiny bathroom whereas he has three!
I know it might seem like I'm focusing on money, but I feel embarrassed because I don't want him to pay for things for me but I don't always have the money disposable like he does to do things, I always insist I pay my half but can put a strain on things. He only has 1 child whereas I have more.
Has anyone been in a relationship where the balance is tipped like this?
I know I need to get over it. It's all in my head, not his. I just feel a little embarrassed.
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