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commitment phobe?

(122 Posts)
lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 19:24:50

help? seeing someone and he sees me one to two times a week and doesn't want to look at me or text me between times?! ignores me, blanks me and then will see me...it's so hard it hurts so bad..what do i do?

AuntieStella Sat 12-Dec-15 19:27:02

How long have you been seeing him? And are you sure he's single?

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 19:29:17

he's definitely single... been seeing him for eight months

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 19:31:04

he says he's fucked up..he says he needs to see a psychiatrist?

Goingtobeawesome Sat 12-Dec-15 19:31:08

Don't waste your time on someone who makes you feel bad.

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 19:31:26

really lovely when i see him..

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 19:32:58

will see me and then a few hours later will blank me completely..won't even smile?

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 19:33:21

no texts now for six days?!

Goingtobeawesome Sat 12-Dec-15 19:34:29

Does he get what he wants when he sees you?

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 19:36:13

yes

Lweji Sat 12-Dec-15 19:36:41

Why are you sticking at it?

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 19:38:15

because he is so lovely when we are together..

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 19:38:38

we laugh, have a great time

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 19:38:54

i just don't understand..

Goingtobeawesome Sat 12-Dec-15 19:39:03

Crumbs is what you are accepting. Find someone who will give you a whole slice but work on why you accept mouldy crumbs before you do.

Lweji Sat 12-Dec-15 19:39:42

Of course he is. He can afford to put out all his effort to keep you on board till next time...

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 19:41:40

i've texted him saying i don't understand.. he hasn't texted me for six days! sad

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 19:42:24

he says he feels claustrophobic

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 19:43:13

i went up to him and said do you still like me?..and he said leave leave it for a minute and i said for a minte? and he said yes..

Goingtobeawesome Sat 12-Dec-15 19:57:04

How old are you, OP?

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 20:04:31

late thirties

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 20:10:31

i think i have texted him too much..!!

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 20:10:43

what do i do?

Lweji Sat 12-Dec-15 20:11:34

You send one final text.
Goodbye.

lostinthewoodshelp Sat 12-Dec-15 20:12:53

really?

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