My BF sits infront of the TV every single night watching football. We only ever communicate if I come and sit in the same room whilst the game is on, and we either have a half conversation over the TV or he shock PAUSES the game whilst I say something. Agh!!
We sleep in separate rooms. This started ages ago when our DS was a baby because he says he sleeps better on his own for work etc. We dont have sex anymore and very little intimacy.
He is not unpleasant to me, just disinterested. I have tried to talk to him about all this. He made me feel like some sex crazed nutter when I mentioned the intimacy, and then every time I try and broach the other things he either makes out I'm being a drama queen or says its not the right time to talk. It never seems to be the right time. He says he still finds me attractive but I see zero evidence of this.
I know we are both busy, but I'm still in my twenties!! What can I do to improve things?
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Living like an old married couple :(
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