NC because hey, he's not always fucking abusive! And you're all going to tell me to LTB.
He's a good fucking person most of the time, he had the shittest of shit childhoods, really grim and the majority of the time, he deals with it and he's a good man.
Very, very occasionally (tonight) he has too much to drink and turns into an evil cunt, you can see when it's coming and I don't hide from it, I don't modify my behaviour, I not scared of him, I challenge it, but he turns into a different man. I got two backhanders tonight and kicked him out the door.
He needs to get a fucking grip of what happened to him. He can't come back unless he can accept change. I've had enough, there is so much hatred of women there, so much bile.
I suggested counselling to get to grips with his past, but no.
I'm not scared, I'm not abused, I just want better for him.
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