Hoping someone can put things into perspective for me on this one.
I'm currently dating a man who's recently revealed that he's been married 3 times. The first marriage was in his early 20s and didn't last long but the subsequent marriages did last a bit longer, think 5 years on one and 4 on the other.
I have never been married and perhaps naively think that when I do it'll just be once but it seems as though he treats marriage as a fast-food outlet iyswim?
He doesn't speak negatively about his exes bar the first one which he says was the worst mistake he ever made and tends to get a little cagey if I ask about the other marriages but I just find myself thinking that I don't want to be number 4, if you see what I mean?
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Do I need a grip or is multiple marriages a red flag?
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ymba · 05/12/2015 12:54
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