I'm seven months pregnant and have a two year old. This pregnancy has been tough for me in the sense that in the beginning I was really sick and the last couple of months I have felt very tired and exhausted. Some days are better than others but most days I feel totally wiped out. My bf (of 10 years) is home now yet I am still the one that needs to do all the cooking, grocery shopping, changing the diapers (occasionally he will change one once a week or so) bathing, laundry etc. Yet I can't count how many times he has called me lazy because I will take a nap during the day or when I feel really tired (and leave him with our son since he is at home) He has also called me lazy because I lie in bed when he is in the living room playing his video games and talking to his friends which I do because there is not enough space on our couch for me to sit comfortably and I'm much more comfortable in my bed than sitting anywhere else. He has always worked steadily and brought in more money then me and for this reason believes that I should be happy with that and not bother him to do anything and I should do it all which I find very frustrating at times. He has also told me that he has never heard of a woman being pregnant like me (complaining about being tired and napping or lying down so much). Some days are better then others but I can't help but feel down when he calls me lazy and tries to make me feel bad for resting especially because he is the one that really wanted this other baby in the first place. Can anyone relate?
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