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never turns the light off!

(8 Posts)
Potatoface2 Sat 05-Dec-15 00:22:55

does anyone elses partner do what mine does.....i go up to bed, then when he comes up he has a shower then gets into bed leaving bedroom big light on...when i mention it he tells me to turn it off as he has to get up in the morning and i dont??....weird or what

Ledkr Sat 05-Dec-15 00:24:08

Yes very weird.

Ledkr Sat 05-Dec-15 00:24:52

Put an eye mask on and go to sleep, he will soon turn it off

pictish Sat 05-Dec-15 00:36:10

Whaaaat? That's a fucking sacking offence in my book. No way!

Potatoface2 Sat 05-Dec-15 00:38:33

he does get up at six....still dark and he doesnt put it on and disturb me.....i tried leaving it on at night but hes the type that can be asleep as soon as his head hits the pillow...thing is hes gone up before me tonight and has turned it

magoria Sat 05-Dec-15 10:45:58

I would say it is the thin end of the wedge with him blatantly telling you that he and his time are more important and that you are less important.

It is a very small thing that speaks volumes of his respect for you.

He cannot even be bothered to turn a light off on the way through because your time/rest is secondary to his.

Morganly Sat 05-Dec-15 10:50:29

Take the bulb out?

ILiveAtTheBeach Sat 05-Dec-15 11:29:50

Yep, remove the bulb. place it on the floor, so that he stands on it before getting in to bed

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