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I need to end a relationship

(17 Posts)
PatriciaJones Thu 03-Dec-15 18:46:45

After over a decade.


ALaughAMinute Thu 03-Dec-15 18:49:45

It is hard. flowers

Why are you ending it?

PatriciaJones Thu 03-Dec-15 18:55:06

Actually, to my shame now, I have posted over the last decade about this and ignored advice to cut my losses.

PatriciaJones Thu 03-Dec-15 18:56:36

No kids between us.

Lweji Thu 03-Dec-15 19:02:12

Do you need help with it?
Or just hand holding?

PatriciaJones Thu 03-Dec-15 19:37:14

Hand holding, determination.
Rebuilding life.

PatriciaJones Thu 03-Dec-15 19:38:42

He's married. Was separated for over a year before we met so I was never ow.

PatriciaJones Thu 03-Dec-15 19:40:16

Lied. Lied. Lied.

hellsbellsmelons Fri 04-Dec-15 11:39:37

What is your plan then?
Text and end it all then block and delete?
Face to face?
What will work best for you?

ImperialBlether Fri 04-Dec-15 11:46:29

What did he lie about? Are you living together?

iMatter Fri 04-Dec-15 11:47:51

He married someone else when he was with you?

I think that says everything about where you fit into his life.

Walk away and do it now. Otherwise you'll be another 10 years down the line and even more miserable.

wideboy26 Fri 04-Dec-15 11:50:54

Sounds more like separated but has never bothered to divorce. Or "never got around to it"

iMatter Fri 04-Dec-15 14:42:41

Ah ok, thanks!

PatriciaJones Mon 07-Dec-15 14:17:14

Sry not to reply;

I thing I matter has good advice. It's so hard to cut losses after so much investment.

Sry to disappear; I am avoiding thinking about it.

PatriciaJones Sun 13-Dec-15 17:06:15

Update. Mission Accomplished.

BrassMonk Sun 13-Dec-15 17:20:35

Proud of you.

PatriciaJones Sun 13-Dec-15 17:24:24

Thank you!
See my thread in chat.

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