So I'm unsure if I should be posting this here or in the pregnancy bit but it is more relationship based ....
I am 20 weeks pregnant and feeling low and insecure and pretty vulnerable; my partner and I have been together for 6 years (this is our first child) and until now I have felt pretty secure; however in the last few months I have been feeling very vulnerable and recently done something I have never done before; snooped in his Facebook! I am so ashamed as I know that these things begin downward spirals and I have only done it a handful of times; he just feels distant and I know that I am not my best just now (I am a bit all over the place, and feeling very - unusually - insecure) Anyway I noticed he had some messages to other girls I didn't know/heard of much/not work colleagues of friends (one being a 'friend' another being an ex ...) and then these messages disappeared - this of course has cause my mind to go crazy.
I am unsure what to do as I have never felt this way before and feel very alone and slightly unsupported in my pregnancy - all of which is making me act and feel completely out of character.
I feel like if I confront him I will look ridiculous, but feel that hiding things is wrong.
I cannot cope with an argument, as have been quite physically unwell in my pregnancy and just don't know what to do; any advice is welcome!
Thankyou in advance.
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MissN92 · 01/12/2015 21:07
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