I'm posting this on behalf of my Sister because she can't, she's having trouble with her DH and she doesn't know what to do.
Basically all their arguments come down to sex. Every few weeks he gets in a mood with her and she eventually gets it out of him that it's because of sex. The recurring thing is that when they moved into their house it needed a lot of renovation, during this time she didn't initiate sex and because of that he thinks she needs to make it up to him 10 years later.
They argued today because he says she never makes an effort sexually. Previous arguments have been because her underwear wasn't sexy enough on a weekend away, she wears a dressing gown in the morning before getting ready for work and isn't making enough of an effort, he doesn't want granny sex (sex in bed).
It's all bizarre to me, poor Dp is lucky if he gets it at all and if he told me that i wasn't sexy enough he knows where the door is.
I'll be sending her a link to this thread but i don't know if she will be able to post.
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tryingtohelpout · 30/11/2015 16:11
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