So, I have a new-ish boyfriend and it's at the stage where we're occasionally staying the night at each other's houses, and sleep in the same bed.
We usually fall asleep snuggled up, which is lovely. However, we then stay like that and it's a bit of a problem... Basically, if I get too hot while I'm asleep I tend to have nightmares.
So, pretty much every time we've shared a bed I've had bad dreams - he's actually woken me up because I was whimpering and obviously unhappy. Other times I've jerked awake all panicky which has woken him (I think in some of the dreams I've felt trapped, which obviously doesn't help when I wake up and he's holding me so I can't move much...).
Do you think this might get better if we stay together more? If so I'll just put up with it for a bit longer, but I don't want to wake him up all the time and it's not much fun for me either! He's mentioned that he really loves sleepy cuddling though, so I feel bad saying anything. Especially as it seems a bit like I'm blaming him for my dreams!
Any bright ideas how to mention it in a nice way? Or should I hope I get used to it? It's never been a problem before, so I don't know what to do! I think I might try thinner pyjamas next time and see if that helps...
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Sleeping cuddled up is giving me nightmares. What can I do?
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PolkadotsAndMoonbeams · 30/11/2015 01:19
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